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PostPosted: Wed Aug 16, 2006 10:55 pm    Post subject: Re: Examining the exotic ins and outs of marrying a foreigne Reply with quote

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I think the author meant Western nations when he said "elsewhere" ... and I also think he meant to say "when compared to Japan, at least" at the end of the sentence.


Oh yes, one more thing. "He" is a "she". Kaori is a girl's name. Which makes the stupid sweeping first statement a whole lot more likely.

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 7:34 am    Post subject: Re: Examining the exotic ins and outs of marrying a foreigne Reply with quote

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By KAORI SHOJI
Elsewhere in the world, mixed marriages are no big deal.


Doesn't this article lose all credibility after you read the first line? uhm


Good point Hewer. How can he make such a general and sweeping statement?


I think the author meant Western nations when he said "elsewhere" ... and I also think he meant to say "when compared to Japan, at least" at the end of the sentence.

To me, mixed marriages seem to be more common in the West (and thus more "accepted") than in the Far East ...

Of course, this is just what I feel ...

As for me, I don't mind dating women of other races one bit - in fact I prefer it. Variety is the spice of life, as Wocca noted.

Wink


Well, the author should have begun the article with "In the west..." or "In western nations..."

Trust me on this Rahul, the author more than likely meant "all other countries".

Typical Japanese bulls**t where they assume the rest of the world is too naive to understand Japanese ways. violent


Hewer, first off congrats on becoming a centurion Wink.

Yep, the author should have begun the article as you said ... and since you're living in Japan - I'll go with your gut feeling on this one Wink

As far as the "rest of the world is too naive to understand their ways" bit goes, it's very true - but then one could say that about many other countries too ... including countries like India or China ... Such is life as an expat in a foreign country Wink.
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PostPosted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 7:37 am    Post subject: Re: Examining the exotic ins and outs of marrying a foreigne Reply with quote

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RahulDG wrote:

I think the author meant Western nations when he said "elsewhere" ... and I also think he meant to say "when compared to Japan, at least" at the end of the sentence.


Oh yes, one more thing. "He" is a "she". Kaori is a girl's name. Which makes the stupid sweeping first statement a whole lot more likely.

Cool


Right - I didnt notice that ... Embarassed ... so you mean the Japanese women (in general) generalize a lot more when it comes to interracial or intercultural marriage (or dating) issues Question
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PostPosted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 11:38 pm    Post subject: Re: Examining the exotic ins and outs of marrying a foreigne Reply with quote

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Hewer wrote:
RahulDG wrote:

I think the author meant Western nations when he said "elsewhere" ... and I also think he meant to say "when compared to Japan, at least" at the end of the sentence.


Oh yes, one more thing. "He" is a "she". Kaori is a girl's name. Which makes the stupid sweeping first statement a whole lot more likely.

Cool


Right - I didnt notice that ... Embarassed ... so you mean the Japanese women (in general) generalize a lot more when it comes to interracial or intercultural marriage (or dating) issues Question


Nope, not exactly. Let me quote Mrs. Hewer, IQ 160, a Trinidadian of Indian descent:

"Most Japanese women are taught from a young age to be Japanese and to spurn critical thought. The rest are just plain dumb"

My wife is a gentle, intelligent, patient woman. I thought quoting her might rule out chauvanism on my part. Twisted Evil
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PostPosted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 11:44 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

To be honest, the post was too long for me to go through it...

Therefore, I might be off the orginal post... though I think, women's first thoughts about marrying a foreigner... (whether they are in a relationship or not...)

...just passing thoughts, are that they think that their offsprings might look much cuter and more beautiful uhm
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PostPosted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 11:54 pm    Post subject: Re: Examining the exotic ins and outs of marrying a foreigne Reply with quote

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Hewer, first off congrats on becoming a centurion Wink.



Congratulations yourself Rahul! Laughing occasion Laughing
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PostPosted: Fri Aug 18, 2006 7:40 am    Post subject: Re: Examining the exotic ins and outs of marrying a foreigne Reply with quote

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RahulDG wrote:
Hewer wrote:
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I think the author meant Western nations when he said "elsewhere" ... and I also think he meant to say "when compared to Japan, at least" at the end of the sentence.


Oh yes, one more thing. "He" is a "she". Kaori is a girl's name. Which makes the stupid sweeping first statement a whole lot more likely.

Cool


Right - I didnt notice that ... Embarassed ... so you mean the Japanese women (in general) generalize a lot more when it comes to interracial or intercultural marriage (or dating) issues Question


Nope, not exactly. Let me quote Mrs. Hewer, IQ 160, a Trinidadian of Indian descent:

"Most Japanese women are taught from a young age to be Japanese and to spurn critical thought. The rest are just plain dumb"

My wife is a gentle, intelligent, patient woman. I thought quoting her might rule out chauvanism on my part. Twisted Evil


ROTFLMAO!! Laughing

Hewer, NEVER ask a foreign (non-fareast-Asian *I didnt want to say the O word*) woman what they think of women in the Far East! Very Happy

Most American and Indian women say EXACTLY the same thing about Chinese women and consider them ditzy and not too cute (but I beg to differ Razz).

lmao that comment was just hilarious. occasion
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PostPosted: Fri Aug 18, 2006 7:40 am    Post subject: Re: Examining the exotic ins and outs of marrying a foreigne Reply with quote

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Hewer, first off congrats on becoming a centurion Wink.



Congratulations yourself Rahul! Laughing occasion Laughing


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 18, 2006 7:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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To be honest, the post was too long for me to go through it...

Therefore, I might be off the orginal post... though I think, women's first thoughts about marrying a foreigner... (whether they are in a relationship or not...)

...just passing thoughts, are that they think that their offsprings might look much cuter and more beautiful uhm


Their first thought probably isn't related to beauty, rather, financial concerns. Mr. Green
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PostPosted: Fri Aug 18, 2006 8:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

madwolfie wrote:
To be honest, the post was too long for me to go through it...

Therefore, I might be off the orginal post... though I think, women's first thoughts about marrying a foreigner... (whether they are in a relationship or not...)

...just passing thoughts, are that they think that their offsprings might look much cuter and more beautiful uhm


I love your honesty and admit i dont think I've read the whole thing either.

are not the womens first thoughts "is this guy going to treat me well and stay on for the long term??
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PostPosted: Fri Aug 18, 2006 9:00 am    Post subject: Re: Examining the exotic ins and outs of marrying a foreigne Reply with quote

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Hewer wrote:


Nope, not exactly. Let me quote Mrs. Hewer, IQ 160, a Trinidadian of Indian descent:

"Most Japanese women are taught from a young age to be Japanese and to spurn critical thought. The rest are just plain dumb"

My wife is a gentle, intelligent, patient woman. I thought quoting her might rule out chauvanism on my part. Twisted Evil


ROTFLMAO!! Laughing

Hewer, NEVER ask a foreign (non-fareast-Asian *I didnt want to say the O word*) woman what they think of women in the Far East! Very Happy

Most American and Indian women say EXACTLY the same thing about Chinese women and consider them ditzy and not too cute (but I beg to differ Razz).

lmao that comment was just hilarious. occasion


Further exploration of the topic with Mrs. Hewer has confirmed a few suspicions and yielded a few more hardened opinions. Laughing

(My favourite: India has the world's most beautiful women. Kind of biased I think but I can't exactly dispute it Mr. Green )

You are 100% correct Rahul. Why do so many "foreign" women feel this way about women in the far east? I think this extends to the south-east Asia too.

Maybe because they attract men or take their men away? uhm
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PostPosted: Fri Aug 18, 2006 9:10 am    Post subject: Re: Examining the exotic ins and outs of marrying a foreigne Reply with quote

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Nope, not exactly. Let me quote Mrs. Hewer, IQ 160, a Trinidadian of Indian descent:

"Most Japanese women are taught from a young age to be Japanese and to spurn critical thought. The rest are just plain dumb"

My wife is a gentle, intelligent, patient woman. I thought quoting her might rule out chauvanism on my part. Twisted Evil


ROTFLMAO!! Laughing

Hewer, NEVER ask a foreign (non-fareast-Asian *I didnt want to say the O word*) woman what they think of women in the Far East! Very Happy

Most American and Indian women say EXACTLY the same thing about Chinese women and consider them ditzy and not too cute (but I beg to differ Razz).

lmao that comment was just hilarious. occasion


Further exploration of the topic with Mrs. Hewer has confirmed a few suspicions and yielded a few more hardened opinions. Laughing

(My favourite: India has the world's most beautiful women. Kind of biased I think but I can't exactly dispute it Mr. Green )

You are 100% correct Rahul. Why do so many "foreign" women feel this way about women in the far east? I think this extends to the south-east Asia too.

Maybe because they attract men or take their men away? uhm


Exactly right Hewer -

It's because we just can't resist them cute Asian (Indian, far East, South East Asia) girls Wink ...

My personal favorite would be China as far as pretty girls go, but then we all have our own preferences Wink.

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 18, 2006 7:11 pm    Post subject: Re: Examining the exotic ins and outs of marrying a foreigne Reply with quote

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It's because we just can't resist them cute Asian (Indian, far East, South East Asia) girls Wink ...

My personal favorite would be China as far as pretty girls go, but then we all have our own preferences Wink.

Rahul


Too true Rahul, too true.

I'll get in trouble if I start stating favourites Twisted Evil
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PostPosted: Fri Aug 18, 2006 7:19 pm    Post subject: Re: Examining the exotic ins and outs of marrying a foreigne Reply with quote

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It's because we just can't resist them cute Asian (Indian, far East, South East Asia) girls Wink ...

My personal favorite would be China as far as pretty girls go, but then we all have our own preferences Wink.

Rahul


Too true Rahul, too true.

I'll get in trouble if I start stating favourites Twisted Evil


If you convert to the new BPR religion and your missus starts firing missiles at you for stating such, then according to Commandment #11, you could always run for the nearest dame's house and take shelter there Wink
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PostPosted: Fri Aug 18, 2006 7:32 pm    Post subject: Re: Examining the exotic ins and outs of marrying a foreigne Reply with quote

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It's because we just can't resist them cute Asian (Indian, far East, South East Asia) girls Wink ...

My personal favorite would be China as far as pretty girls go, but then we all have our own preferences Wink.

Rahul


Too true Rahul, too true.

I'll get in trouble if I start stating favourites Twisted Evil


If you convert to the new BPR religion and your missus starts firing missiles at you for stating such, then according to Commandment #11, you could always run for the nearest dame's house and take shelter there Wink


Ahh, but then it would have to be a Japanese girl Twisted Evil
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